The Mclays Mormon Story – Wow

Awesome letter to John Dehlin (creator of Mormon Stories) from someone who wants to remain anonymous for privacy reasons I am passing this on to the blogosphere:

Dear John Dehlin,

In May 2010, when I was pregnant with my Xth child, my husband admitted he didn’t believe in the church, namely Joseph Smith. I was devastated and angry, and spent months trying to figure out what was “wrong with him”.

At one point I noticed he added you as a friend on Facebook. I had never heard of you before, and he told me about Mormon Stories. I was convinced Mormon Stories and you were wolves in sheep’s clothing (I know, I’m sorry!!) and asked him to unfriend you and basically leave all the “anti-mormon” stuff alone while I sorted things out.

He respected my wishes, and I attempted to sort things out. I started to realize everything he had been telling me was very valid. Out of curiosity I subscribed to your Facebook feed.

Somewhere along the way my husband and I began to see much more eye to eye, and have been in much better harmony. Better than ever actually. And he eventually added you again on Facebook. 😉

I thought I had come a long way, and thought I had learned to open my mind and my heart. However, when you posted the McLay’s podcast, when I saw “CES” and “ex-Mormon” together my automatic assumption was that they were angry people with an axe to grind. Within seconds of watching, I realized how wrong I was.

I am still semi-active in the church as I’m trying to figure out the path that works best for me (and my kids). During Relief Society I went out to my car to watch the McLay’s podcast on my phone. I was riveted, and later I had my husband watch the rest with me (he enjoyed it as well).

The McLays had me in tears. I realized I still had the ridiculous assumptions and judgments that Mormons tend to jump too. I was changed by their story…in understanding why people leave, in giving me hope in whether I choose to stay or leave, and mainly by seeing that we don’t know what is in people’s hearts so we truly shouldn’t judge. I never realized how judgmental I had learned to be, and how wrong those judgments are.

I sent a little message to the McLays, and I wanted to thank you as well for the difference you are making. Thank you–especially for making a safe place so people like me don’t have to feel so alone, a place where we can see that life goes on after it feels the world has come crashing down.

All the best,

XXXXX

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If you didn’t click on the link above to see/hear the story of the Mclay’s click here. Now to change the subject…

I can’t believe in my last blog entry I forgot to mention the joy of not wearing garments.

Seriously. No more stuffing garments into jeans, no more trying to put maxipads with “wings” on garments (Note: It doesn’t work!). Garments are not designed for women.  They show absolutely no understanding. Anyway, now I can sleep in my yoga pants/tank top and do yoga in the morning without having to change until after.  Does that make me sound lazy? I really hate changing clothes all day long!

Anyway, I hope you watch or listen to the story of the McLays. It is such an important story to tell.

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